About Me
- Tricia Gloria Nabaye
- Welcome to my world. I'm Tricia Gloria Nabaye, on a mission to advocate for gender equality, human rights, and democratic governance through the lens of feminist intersectional practices. With nine years of experience, I've honed my skills to be a force for positive change. My strengths lie in problem-solving and effective cross-cultural collaboration, and I thrive in leadership roles. My analytical perspective ensures that my advocacy is data-driven and impactful. My primary focus is on feminist leadership consulting, where I provide valuable insight and guidance. I also offer rapporteur services, ensuring that essential discussions are documented and shared. As a feminist researcher, my deep commitment lies in addressing gender issues, empowering women and girls, and advancing public policy advocacy. I'm a visionary dedicated to shaping the future of advocacy with a strong focus on human rights. Join me in our journey to drive positive change. Together, we can build a world where gender equality and human rights are at the forefront, ensuring a more inclusive and just society for all.
Thursday, July 13, 2023
He Proposed!
When he walked into the door, I just burst out and cried. And he just kept saying nice things to me.
The next thing I know, Uncle is on one knee asking me to marry him.
And I said Yes
THIS IS 30
I turned Thirty today! Three decades lived, with trials but joy accompanying the heavy days. I turned Thirty today!
This is 30, full of full-circle moments
This is 30, raw, unedited...lived
Three entire decades and a girl with a story to tell.
This is 30! A journey still unfolding, a journey to self.
Tuesday, March 21, 2023
Of fear and blurry nights.
I am sitting here after our phones went off and for the first time on this journey, I am embracing fear as an old friend. I am sitting with myself and looking back on the many hurdles we have hopped through, some of me braver than I could ever master.
I am looking back and I am embracing the change that comes with leaving this place I have called my own and the freedom solitude affords.
I am scared! Many times! But tonight, this fear holds me safe like a dear old friend. I have been brave this long but not brave at the thought of how much changes with just one Yes.
I remember the stern words of the counsellor and still embrace my fear. I hope we have more journeys of joy over the years than tears and sticky dialogues. I don’t want forever to hurt, even when forever comes with pain, too.
And so I retire to bed holding fear in my chest. Taking in the last few moments of solitude. Embracing her like a friend who reminds me of what’s at stake. Because every so often, that is the reminder that reminds me of what bravery looks like at this moment.
The brevity of leaving behind freedom, the utopian spirit of living alone and the effortless joys of just doing life on your terms… when I think of that, I hope my heart can remember the brevity of choosing to do life with another person.
Tonight we lay down scared of the unspoken things in our dialogue. Selah.
Monday, February 06, 2023
THE LAST LAP OF THE TWENTIES
Thursday, January 26, 2023
And then I prayed for Him…
I write this prayer as a stone memorial for when we look back on this day many years into the tomorrows before us… whatever will be then, this is my prayer for Him.
Today I cover Him in prayer. I pray He loves me as Christ loves the church. I pray that he will find peace with me on this journey as we walk into the next steps of life.
I pray He loves me, leads me, and reassures my heart. Lord, you said, Love is patient and love is kind. I pray that he will love me with this kind of love. Lord, in you there is hope and I am building all our plans and desires on You.
I DECLARE AND DECREE that I will marry my best friend, that I will be his good thing.
Help to be his good thing. I pray that he will be my protector, provider and the one who I come to God with. Thank you for aligning me with Him. He covers me in prayer, Lord, and so I speak to you about Him because he is no stranger to you.
I pray that you will keep me on my knees in prayer over the years on this journey. I pray that we may cross many journeys with you at the centre. Help us pursue your blessing on this journey. May he experience open doors and favour. Help us always keep you in the loop of what we desire so that you, Lord, can be the foundation of it all
I thank you, Lord, for he has created a safe space for me to be soft. Help me never to take advantage of his love, help me to always see his love as the sacrifice of his heart. Your word says Perfect love casts out all fear. I thank you because he has put my fears to rest.
I pray for providence. May you bless the works of his hands, may you bless his finances, and may you place destiny helpers on this journey that will show up mighty in bringing this union to reality.
I pray for His plans, Lord, your word says, many are the plans of man, but your way prevails. May your will be done in our lives as we step by faith into our destiny. Help me honour him, respect him, be his helper and submit to him. My heart is undone Lord, I lay bare like the lady with the alabaster jar, and I surrender this beating heart to Him, for Him to hold my hand and always bring me back to your presence as the priest in my life.
You know my heart and you know his heart, Lord, and I join my faith with him and pray that you will fulfil our heart’s desires all for the glory of your name. May all honour and glory be unto your Lord. Your word says, when the time is right, you, oh Lord, make things happen. I stand on your word and rest my heart on your timing. In your time, may you turn this into something beautiful, something that brings glory to your name.
Amen.
Friday, December 16, 2022
HE PRAYED FOR ME
He prayed for me...
He bowed in prayer, and at that moment; He prayed to Abba Father.
That moment was a selah moment...
He prayed for us...
He bowed his hands in prayer and at that moment; he committed this journey to God.
That moment was a time freeze...
He has done other things. He has done some other things that would have been memorable.
But he prayed for me, and that has been on my mind.
That moment was a bliss moment...
He prayed for us, and I remembered the foundation of this love journey
Christ, the Master and Captain of this life...
And every day after that, I have prayed for him.
-Selah-
Tuesday, October 11, 2022
ENIGMA FROM EUROPE
Monday, August 15, 2022
Why the Kenyan Election matters to the East African Region.
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On Tuesday, Kenya went to the polls to elect its fifth president since independence, but
the vote is too close to call. As East Africans wait on the results, it is impertinent to make
sense of why the Kenya polls matter in the geopolitical narrative of the great lakes region.
Many of us are in anticipation of what the outcome of the Kenya General Elections will be.
As East Africans, we are critically watching the ballot outcome. Kenya plays a central role
in her neighbouring countries; Kenya is the central economic hub of East Africa and serves
as the commercial gateway for Central Africa and therefore, what happens in Kenya will
have strong repercussions in the region.
Equally, the Kenya polls will certainly set a precedent for other East African countries to
follow, regarding political leadership and democratic practices. It should be noted that
Kenya did not have an internet shut down in the current electoral process, a pattern that
has become commonplace with many African electoral processes, violence has been
curtailed and the level of transparency through the process has been beckoned as a
breath of fresh air in electoral processes within the region.
It should be remembered that the 2022 general elections of Uganda, were held amidst a
total internet shutdown and with heavy military presence and arrest of political opponents
and therefore, Kenya sets a new precedent in how to organise, non-violent elections, that
among other things is because of their electoral reforms that came after a rather violent
the electoral process in 2007/8.
The intricacies in the region lie in East Africa’s longest-serving Presidents, If removed,
there is a possibility that the region can finally deal with the narrative of a life presidency in
the East African region. The geopolitical placing of some leaders serves for a longer
the entrenchment of particular people’s interests within the region. Kenya stands out for its
the relative stability in a region where some elections are deeply challenged and longtime
leaders such as Rwanda’s President Paul Kagame and Uganda’s President Yoweri
Museveni has been declared the winner with almost 99% of the votes or been widely
accused of physically cracking down on contenders and rendering the ballot void of
transformative and transitional politics.
Democracies require not just presidents who bow out, but elections that are seen to be
free, fair and peaceful. Kenya is setting a new trajectory for herself, but precarious
questions to ask now and beyond the polls are whether the Kenyan election will birth a new
strongman in the region. And will there be a change in the guard of leadership or an extension
of the old rule? Those among other questions are important for us to interrogate and make
sense of.
While we wait for Kenya’s fifth president, it goes without saying that this election is central
into moving Kenya into the space for healthy electoral processes and for a better Kenya in
the long run. Fundamentally, Kenya has many issues at stake ranging from youth
unemployment that has been at a record high for the past five years, and stands at 30%,
Inflation due to the global economic crisis among other issues and consequently, whoever
takes the office of the president, has urgent work to be done.
Tricia Gloria Nabaye
Resident Research Associate: GREAT LAKES INSTITUTE FOR STRATEGIC
STUDIES.
Saturday, April 16, 2022
OF DEEP-END PITS

Today I danced with the thought of suicide [Selah]
I am not brave enough to do it but the thought crossed my mind;
I am happy with my life… it just has been hard holding things together for a while now…
And the fear to ask for help…
People say call me when you need me but I have called sometimes and I could tell the disdain on the other end…
Also, my pride started to shy away from just asking.
But today I danced with the idea of suicide.
For the first time…it felt like a simple solution to my problems;
I know I am not brave enough to do it…but the thought of it scared me a little bit.
Thoughts become actions…
Today I danced with the solution to living;
Today I danced with the thought of suicide...
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TO LOVE AND TO LET GO
I knew this day was coming so why am I hurting?
Friday, April 15, 2022
Hearts belong to the Maker
You know my heart Lord,
Monday, April 11, 2022
29ish: Of big ages and finishing a decade well
I do not what it is but my big age is making me jittery, of course, I no longer have the flare that used to follow me in my tender years, I am quieter and bent on enjoying my solitude, I have a pet in the absence of children [I have decided that is the reason] I am learning patience, I am less impulsive, less sensitive and more forgiving of things not going my way.
I can officially say, I am at the heart of adulting, I have had my moment with how expensive saucepans and curtains are, the latter almost wipe me off but also opened my eyes to what bills, budgeting and finances are really about.
I have an investment portfolio, right now it is in pause mode because of the Ukrainian crisis but that too will pass. I have a cloud of witnesses on this journey called mentors, though buddies and cheerleaders. I can officially claim responsibility and accountability on my turf.
Everything seems to be falling into alignment. And that is the place I want to be for the next year- in alignment.
In all living, I am very scared of 29, at the back of my mind, is the resounding gong telling me to make 29 counts because it is the last year in the decade of my 20s. That responsibility continues to outweigh my dreams and aspirations. As if for some unknown reason, 29 is my grounding year, in a sense, I feel like, after 29, there will be very little that can ground me if I miss it at 29.
Phew! I am very scared of 29, I desire to get it right, and to find my alignment in this life. To recourse, realign and repurpose myself for the next decade. I don't want this next year to find me still rumbling about getting it right. I want to have a plan for the next decade, whether it happens in that way or not. 29 is the year to plan for my 30s.
I also know that many of my plans will change as the years unfold but I want to hope that I will have cemented my next steps at my finishing plate in my twenties.
What a time to be this old! What a time to dream and what a time to align oneself. I am hoping for the best certainly as I also prepare for the worst.
Here is to 29-ish. To be a full-blown adult with responsibilities, to desire more growth, to shape the journey ahead and to enjoy the moments in between. Here's to making it all work.
29-ish
I PUT YOU IN A POEM
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Hey, you...
Seeing you from here doesn't put things in perspective.
I like you for me..heck I want you for me
Beyond that...I am clueless
So I put you in a poem.
I see you dare to try...
Will the stars align? Will you dare intentionality...
You don't see it but I am anxious...This...this brave face hides a feeble trembling soul.
I know that you are good for my soul.
I see you stern and sharp...
Rough on the edges but aren't we all?
I like you for me..heck I want you for me
Beyond that...I am clueless
So I put you in a poem.
PS: To all the men capable of making me write poetry. You unleash my rawest self ❤️
Sunday, February 13, 2022
GRATITUDE FILES: NSIIMYE
I am still scared of turning twenty nine but I am equally happy with how far I have come on this life journey. There was a time I was scared I wouldn't make it this far but to see how much ground I have covered in 28 years! I am filled with bounts of gratitude.
Friday, February 11, 2022
An Ode to “You”
Hey you, yes you, I see you,




