P.S: Well this post, was never news paper worthy. But I am sure it worth my blog and the eyes that will read it.(some dreams like writing for a paper evolve with time.)
My friend
has managed to do a degree in Development studies, pursue two certificates and
enroll into Law Development Center for a diploma in law and she is just 24. It
got me thinking of the lines that have been drawn for the girl-child and how
slowly but surely they have as well been burnt down without very few obstacles
but obstacles as well. It brought me back to the reality that the girl-child
has actually beaten a lot of odds by the time she comes of age. So what
happens to life as she goes on to pursue her dreams and find her purpose in
this world but of course, without forgetting to settle down and raise a family? There
should be a guide to a girl’s journey on her way to further education but of
great importance I would love to share a few pointers, I have searched about
and most importantly how to waive through that season to the desired goal at
the end of the day.
The Tuition: While further
studies, could mean anything, lately it is quite the norm to get a second
degree or a masters degree or even anything equivalent. But as well, the
question of tuition remains strong in that journey. If you are going to self
fund, be ready to work hard as well. It is actually possible to work and study.
Prepare before hand for the
strain, so that you are not overwhelmed in the end by the fees structure. A lot
of times, parents are willing to pay for the first degree and then let loose
the child to fend for whatever studying comes right after, so thinking through
the tuition is mandatory if one is off to pursue further studies.
The scholarship; between paying
for English test, application fees one ought to think of how to get the best
sale for a scholarship as well. So then, look for scholarships that have
requirements easy to meet before the deadline. Have enough time to research and
read about the programs offered and then apply to as many scholarships as
possible.
The documentation: Many post
graduate and other after university courses will call for documentation (especially
scholarships) be ready to defend that degree that you have, or the research
proposal availed. It is the strength of your documentation sometimes, that
opportunities will be availed.
The balance: Hitting the balance
between work and school can be a fuss, especially if work is as of great
importance as the degree. Be willing to strike a balance between the two.
Create as much time for school as for work so that there is no incompetence in
the end.
The sacrifice: While a lot of
times, the venture for further studies come after accomplishment of many things
and maybe mastering in a field one requires to study in, there will be chances
that sometimes the opportunity may arise before all that, be ready for the
sacrifices or having a lot of things happen along the path of study. Things
like marriage, children and a job among others may be put on hold for a while
therefore brace yourself for the sacrifice.
The success: No journey is worth
going, if the hope of success is faint, so with determination and zeal, work to
succeed in your further studies. I have found that a point in time, it becomes
very hard for masters’ and Phd students, to complete within the specified time. But
regardless, of the circumstances work at finishing and finishing well.
Life will
take us on different journeys, but the pursuit of our dreams is not without
beating the odds and standing brave, as you head out, remember that while
success is our ultimate desire, failure also does come with life lessons to
embrace. Appreciate both.
Good luck scholar!
