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Welcome to my world. I'm Tricia Gloria Nabaye, on a mission to advocate for gender equality, human rights, and democratic governance through the lens of feminist intersectional practices. With nine years of experience, I've honed my skills to be a force for positive change. My strengths lie in problem-solving and effective cross-cultural collaboration, and I thrive in leadership roles. My analytical perspective ensures that my advocacy is data-driven and impactful. My primary focus is on feminist leadership consulting, where I provide valuable insight and guidance. I also offer rapporteur services, ensuring that essential discussions are documented and shared. As a feminist researcher, my deep commitment lies in addressing gender issues, empowering women and girls, and advancing public policy advocacy. I'm a visionary dedicated to shaping the future of advocacy with a strong focus on human rights. Join me in our journey to drive positive change. Together, we can build a world where gender equality and human rights are at the forefront, ensuring a more inclusive and just society for all.

Friday, September 18, 2015

THE CHILDHOOD THAT WAS


My niece turned two years this week, and looking at the gift I had bought and the toys that she plays with, the I-pad game oriented gadget, the little child laptop for English learners and all that glamour. I was taken back in retrospect to a time when the banana fiber doll and ball was all there was to toys, to the tyre rolled for a car, that contained a lot of water inside for fuel and two sticks to maneuver it forward. To top it all, I remembered the nights of riddles and stories by the verandah in the night filled with magical African tales of walumbe and Nambi, of Nsangi and the great gorilla. The telltale of what the riddles meant added the excitement to the process of learning these African heritages.

Then I thought forward, to what technology had changed. With its many blessings it brought, it as well ended the evening camping by the front door, the discourse with the grownups who were the master of the stories, so much so that conversations with adults are now with much tension and suspicion. My little nephew could not even spare time to talk with me, he was far indulged in killing imaginary enemies on his game and the evening passed, with  little talk on how the gadget works. It must have been the stars that made the stories so magical, I couldn’t know because there were nights that were starless as well. The fire stove burning with dinner was a delight for the stories, inside the stove was always a stone burning hot for the bed wetter, they used to say it would cure bed wetting, ah they lied, for I must have ceremoniously done so much bed wetting up to my Junior high school.The stories were half the fun; the games took the other part of it. School was gone through in haste with the hope of playing with whoever was willing to play; it was far beyond easy play, games like: kwiiso, noble, bladder, kawuna, stuck in the mud, Nations call (you know that game, where we would have a country for identification and once you were called, you had to do your math to the next country) It was heaven in the early years of my life. While I would retire to bed very tired, I would always wake up looking forward to the fun at the end of the day.

 That is what, technology and fast growing internet has changed for the millennial and those that will come after that. We are cut short between the simplicity of the swing and playground to game station laden theaters for our little ones.                                                                                                            So I held out the Children’s bible for little Missy, hoping that would be a start for many stories, Very different from Wakaima and Wango but mind-intriguing stories anyway. There should be a start to writing African tales, such that even in the age of technology, our heritage is passed on to the little ones and even re-lived by the older ones. That in the presence of reading Jane and Peter, they do not miss the beauties of the hills described in Walumbe and Nambi. That while they won’t grow to have childhood friends who changed their mathematics by playing stepping stones, they can have friends they read with African tales. In retrospect, I write but as well, in pride I pen a time that brought me friends for a life time, memories to share with all that care to listen and above it all, an African heritage I hope to pass on.

 

 

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